MAYDAY MOMENT
“How did the baby get in your tummy?”
Your 5-year-old is going to have a new sibling
Whatever you say next, keep these things in mind…
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5 to 8 is a great age for sex & relationships education – children are ready for more complicated concepts but aren’t too embarrassed to ask questions
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You don’t have to say everything at once. Keep it to small chunks of clear information, says It Happens, who have learned through years of work in primary schools
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If you keep your tone matter-of-fact, and use correct words for body parts, there’s no reason why this should be an awkward situation. But if you’re worried – practise with a partner
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It can be fun to read a picture book like Where Willy Went or the myth-busting Mummy Laid An Egg
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Elaborate on the language with older children but keep it simple. Be guided by the response from the child and put the explanation into the context of a loving and happy relationship
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More help with questions about babies from younger kids…
Remember: every child is different. Adjust these suggestions for the age and stage of your child. Children with special educational needs and disabilities, looked-after children and children who have experienced abuse may all need different support.
If you’re in doubt about your child’s emotional, physical or psychological development, please seek the advice of a professional