OUTSPOKEN RECOMMENDS…
FOR PARENTS
Bringing Home a New Message to Our Kids About Sex, Love and Equality – by Bonnie J Rough (Seal, 2018)
An excellent experiential explanation of the Dutch approach to sex education and normalising sex that intermixes family anecdote, societal/cultural observation and personal interrogation about being honest with ourselves & open with our children
A Parent’s Survival Guide – by Janey Downshire and Naella Grew (Penguin, 2018)
Two counsellors translate their own parenting and teaching experiences into explanations of the links between the roller-coaster emotions, physiology and challenging behaviour of adolescent development, and along the way offer clear, helpful, relatable advice
By Bettina Hohnen, Jane Gilmour and Tara Murphy (Jessica Kingsley, 2019)
Written by three psychologists, this readable book presents neuroscience, case studies and action points in a user-friendly way. It delivers a hands-on understanding of teens’ brain development, motivations and behaviour along with tips on how we can make the most of opportunities to support them. Read more here
A Neuroscientist’s Survival Guide to Raising Adolescents and Young Adults – by Dr Frances E Jensen with Amy Ellis Nutt (HarperCollins, 2015)
An accessible blend of insight into how stress, sleep, risk taking, decision making, gender, drugs, alcohol, ”the digital invasion” etc propel teenagers’ impulsiveness and moods plus first-hand experiences from the neuroscientist mother of two sons
The Secret Life of the Teenage Brain – by Professor Sarah-Jayne Blakemore (Doubleday, 2018)
Viewing teenagers as being in the midst of great creativity rather than just self-absorbed moods, this is a neuroscience look at how teenagers are establishing new thinking patterns, a sense of self and their identity
The Power And Purpose of the Teenage Brain – by Daniel J Siegel, MD (Scribe, 2014)
Billed as “an inside-out guide to the emerging adolescent brain, ages 12-24”, Brainstorm helps parents to understand teenage impulses, creativity and novelty-seeking, the workings of their own brain and how teens and adults can connect.
FOR CHILDREN
by Per Holm Knudsen (Piccolo, 1975)
An engaging, straightforward book with basic, iconic drawings illustrating love, sex and birth – beloved in Scandinavia, and with good reason
by Nicholas Allan (Red Fox, 2006)
Picture book depicting Willy the sperm competing to reach the egg
by Kate Parker (Workman, 2017)
Stunning photographs of athletic girls – their pride and confidence are inspiring
by Keith Negley (Flying Eye, 2015)
Picture book of superheroes, knights, wrestlers and dads showing their feelings
by Ingrid Godon (Macmillan, 2003)
On his lighthouse Matt waits for the return of Sailor. A subtly implied love story




