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Encouraging critical thinking & resilience in the face of limiting gender stereotypes
The more TV a child watches, the more likely they are to believe that “boys are better”, according to a 2013 study by developmental psychologists
If asked to draw a scientist, only around 1 in 4 children will draw a woman
Stereotypes can work against boys as well as girls. As Gender Action points out, boys are just as likely to be put off studying English and drama as girls are to feel they aren’t capable of pursuing physics and business studies
Do you unconsciously allow more aggression in your boy? Tolerate more sensitivity in your girl? Hold them to different standards for bravery, physical prowess creativity and focus?
Every now and again, picture your Edward as an Edwina as a role-reversal test!
Gender stereotypes sound like:
“Boys like…” “Girls don’t, can’t or shouldn’t…” “Boys are naturally…”
Watch out for them and gently challenge why it isn’t OK for girls to play with tractors or boys with dolls
A MIGHTY GIRL
The world’s largest collection of books, toys, movies and music for parents, teachers and others dedicated to raising smart, confident and courageous girls
Follow a mother and father on Twitter as they parent one a girl and a boy. They’ve now published a collection of their online writing: The Gender Agenda
“If Grandma insists on splitting up the cousins based on gender or only gifting them certain things, you have every right to remind them that ‘girl’ and ‘boy’ are concepts us grown-ups created”
6 ways parents can challenge gender stereotypes… – Karen Fratti
“One day I asked my oldest what it was like to have one best friend who is a girl and one best friend who is a boy. His answer? ‘It’s the same. We all like computer games and running around and making up stories and crisps’”
Being a Feminist Mum to Boys – Ella Duncan (Zero Tolerance)
A recommendations service with a great section for parents on sex, gender & body image. Find reviews and lists of the best and worst kids’ films for gender stereotyping & advice on talking about gender issues
It might be easier for children of different genders to foster their relationships outside of school at each other’s houses.
It’s surprisingly easy to fall into having only single-sex friendships or playdates. The more you mix up girls and boys, the more gender neutral their play will become
Both men and women should feel free to be sensitive, to be strong. I think it is right I am paid the same as my male counterparts, that I should be able to make decisions about my own body, that women be involved on my behalf in the policies and decisions that will affect my life, that socially I am afforded the same respect as men. In my moments of doubt, I tell myself firmly: “If not me, who? If not now, when?”
– actor Emma Watson, HeForShe campaign speech to the UN (2014)
More help with #GenderStereotypes
LIFTING LIMITS | Challenging gender stereotypes in school
Remember: every child is different. Adjust these suggestions for the age and stage of your child. Children with special educational needs and disabilities, looked-after children and children who have experienced abuse may all need different support.
If you’re in doubt about your child’s development, you should seek the advice of a professional