MAYDAY MOMENT
“Can I have this?”
Your 3-year-old comes out of the bathroom wanting to play with a tampon
Expert Response #1
Have a play
It’s my [or it’s Mum’s]
tampon. Do you know what it is for? Let’s find out how much water it can soak up! And let’s find some pads as well to compare…
Yoan Reed, director of Teaching Lifeskills and Outspoken Sex Ed
Expert Response #2
Distract
It is something that some people need when they get older, so you will learn about it when you are a little bit older
Josie Rayner-Wells, national PSHE/RSE adviser
Expert Response #3
Tell it like a story
Did you know there’s a house inside all mummies? There are red cushions inside, and these come out sometimes when there’s no baby growing in there. When that happens, we use these to keep our pants clean
Sophie Manning,
Whatever you say next, keep these things in mind…
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Emphasise that there is no need to be embarrassed
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Start simple, adding detail if there are follow-up questions
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Use this moment to talk more about changing bodies, periods and how a baby is made
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Use the correct terms for body parts
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Ask your child questions to guide you in your approach and content
CRISIS NOT AVERTED?
More help with periods…
More Outspoken advice on #Bodies&BodyImage
#EducatingEve
Remember: every child is different. Adjust these suggestions for the age and stage of your child. Children with special educational needs and disabilities, looked-after children and children who have experienced abuse may all need different support.
If you’re in doubt about your child’s emotional, physical or psychological development, please seek the advice of a professional