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NEWS YOU CAN USE
Eddie Izzard on gender
“Having been fascinated by her mother’s clothes, Eddie Izzard was intrigued to see a boy wearing his sister’s dress: ‘I must have been four or five, and there was laughter, mocking. I remember thinking: that sounds pretty good to me, I’d be quite happy to be a girl, what’s going on there?
‘I am gender fluid. I do seem to be a mixture, but I’m now based in girl mode as a trans woman. And now that pronouns have come out [it] feels like a promotion. I’m very happy with that.
‘Some people say [my mother dying when I was 6 is] linked to being trans but it really isn’t because I knew beforehand and I don't think it’s right. I think it’s just built in’”
Eddie Izzard claims she contemplated being female at the age of five and is now firmly in “girl mode” despite having both “girl and boy” genetics (Daily Mail, 1/2/21)
MAYDAY MOMENTS
“Why does Jake have 2 mummies?”
Your 4-year-old starts noticing other families
What do you say?
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WHAT OTHERS HAVE SAID
Anna Whitehouse – author, columnist and founder of Mother Pukka
“The best support and protection parents can offer young people is ensuring they have all the information they need to make decisions about their health, body, sexual exploration and emotions – which is what Outspoken is all about”
Sara Pascoe – comedian, author and member of Outspoken Advisory Board
”As a parent I felt enabled and empowered to have age-and-stage appropriate conversations with my children after the Outspoken Sex Ed workshop. This suddenly felt like a challenge I could take on with gusto rather than shying away from”
Dr Pooky Knightsmith – child and adolescent mental-health expert and author
“This is wonderful work and very much needed”
Dr Naomi Sutton – NHS sexual-health consultant on E4’s The Sex Clinic
“Misinformation about sex has always been part of teenage life. But today, with pornography and social media, young people are exposed to a tsunami of false and damaging ideas and information. It’s therefore our duty to provide young people with a healthy counter-narrative. The work of Outspoken – which provides resources for parents and teachers to have open, honest conversations about sex and relationships – is therefore more crucial than ever”
Natasha Devon MBE – mental-health and body-image campaigner
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